Dance has been an integral part of my life for as long as I can remember. I dedicated most of my free time after school and on weekends to this passion. From a young age, I set my heart on pursuing a dance career, and I never wavered in that commitment. Unlike my schoolwork (which required more effort to motivate me!), attending dance classes was a natural inclination.
At the age of 16, I went off to full-time dance college, where I also received training to become a qualified dance teacher. Reflecting on those years, I grappled with self-esteem issues, often feeling inadequate and hesitating to step out of my comfort zone. While the training I received prepared me for an incredible career, I also encountered challenges. Full time dance training can have a darker side - one that personally left me with more issues than I initially had.
During this period, I became increasingly self-conscious about my body. Although critiques of my appearance and weight likely came from good intentions, there was little awareness of the long-term impact on the dancers’ mental health. As a dancer, you exist under a constant spotlight - not only during stage performances but also in every aspect of your presence: how you dress, style your hair and makeup, and perform in class. The competitive nature of the business toughens dancers’ skin, but it also takes a toll.
After completing full-time college, I embarked on an exciting career, which afforded me the incredible opportunity to sail around the world not just once, but four times aboard cruise ships. What a fantastic way to explore the globe and gain life experiences in my twenties!
These years marked a significant period of self-discovery for me. I began to recognise my potential and allowed my natural leadership qualities to emerge.
Traveling the world in style ignited my wanderlust, and ever since, I am always planning my next destination. People often inquire about my favorite place. Without a doubt, Bora Bora stands out as the most breathtaking location I’ve ever visited - its crystal-clear waters left me mesmerised. I recall spending an entire day floating in a rubber ring, completely immersed in the beauty of that paradise! Reflecting on those years of globetrotting while getting paid to dance, I feel immense gratitude for the experiences and memories that shaped me during that remarkable journey.
Embarking on my dance career, I found myself drawn to the enchanting shores of Waiheke Island in New Zealand. Initially, a brief visit, this idyllic haven soon became my cherished home for the next nine transformative years. It was here that my life truly unfurled, where I stepped into my own power, discovering my intrinsic worth and purpose.
I was offered a premise to start some classes, initially seen as a means to supplement my income and keep me immersed in my passion. However, life had bigger plans! That small studio blossomed into my full-time job, welcoming countless young dancers through its doors. The school’s growth was swift and it soon found its place in the very building I had always envisioned - a dream fulfilled.
Reflecting on this journey, I smile at the synchronicity. As my Mum sifted through my old boxes in the UK, she unearthed a box of notebooks from my youth. In those pages, I meticulously planned my future dance school - registers, class schedules, and all. Little did I realise then that I was manifesting my destiny on that tranquil island in the vast Pacific Ocean.
With immense pride, I share that the school not only thrived but also soared to national and international acclaim. Some of these students now grace professional stages, a testament to the magic woven within those dance studio walls.
Following personal circumstances and a strong intuition, I then made one of the most challenging decisions of my life: putting my studio on the market. Deep within, I sensed it was time to let go and embrace new opportunities. This marked a new chapter in the UK, closing the chapter I had in New Zealand - a place that holds a significant piece of my heart. The friends and community I found there remain sources of immense gratitude. Running a fast paced business without family support in a country halfway across the world revealed my strength and resilience. The journey was tumultuous, filled with highs and lows, yet it ignited an unwavering zest for life. A flame, long dimmed, now alight, affirming that we truly can achieve anything we set our minds to.
Since selling my studio, I’ve had ample time for self-exploration. I delved into the spiritual realm, exploring the power of manifestation and the law of attraction. Returning to the UK, I was determined to recreate the magic I experienced in New Zealand. However, upon reflection and a return to my core values, I realised that reopening a studio wasn’t my current calling. Balance emerged as my paramount value so while I cherish my studio owner journey, everyday balance eluded me, leading to burnout and physical manifestations of stress.
And so, I’ve embarked on a new path - working with women to live fearlessly and to make the changes needed to step into their power. Along this journey I have found the incredible Belief Coding® modality which is truly life changing. As an accredited Life Coach and a Belief Coding® facilitator, I provide coaching that seamlessly blends the powerful techniques of Belief Coding® with the transformative principles of Mindset and Transformation. Through this unique fusion, I guide individuals toward unlocking their full potential, fostering resilience, and achieving lasting positive change. Continual growth has been my guiding principle - I am also undergoing further training to become a Belief Coding® Master Facilitator and an NLP Master Practitioner. The mastery I acquire enables me to offer Belief Coding at a group level through customised courses. Additionally, I am the co-founder of 'Women's Success Squad,' a dynamic group dedicated to collaboration, networking, and mentoring for professional women who aspire to thrive and connect.
My purpose remains rooted in helping others and my passion lies in empowering women - individuals like yourself. The chapters in my life story serve as inspiration for others to embrace change and pursue their dreams. I firmly believe that everyone deserves the opportunity to live their dream life freely. The journey begins within, but I am here to support you, empowering you to achieve the desired results. Age is no barrier; it is never too late. Embrace the belief that you deserve happiness, freedom, and fulfillment every single day.
You are here for a purpose - heed that calling and prioritise yourself.
Be Free, Be Fearless, and Be Authentically You!